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June 4, 2012

First Day of School

I can't believe I overslept for one hour at the first day of school. Of all days! I forgot to sound my alarm(an excuse lol). Fortunately, my nephew has to be in school before 10:00 am so I had couple more hours to prepare... Breakfast and packed lunch. For 4 adults and 2 kids including my son. After all the rush, I offered to bring my nephew to school since Mom has to be in the store before 10.





My nephew was excited and I felt it. We arrived at the school 15 minutes before the gate opened. So we waited.



Finally the gate had opened, and everyone excitedly went inside. Check out the photos I took!












We went up to 4th floor at the left side of the building and brought him to his room.


 He belongs to section 8. Then I left.














This is a beautiful day! Wishing all students to have a fabulous first day in school!!

May 26, 2012

What does "Appendectomy" means exactly?

According to wikipedia: An appendectomy (sometimes called appendisectomy or appendicectomy) is the surgical removal of the vermiform appendix. This procedure is normally performed as an emergency procedure, when the patient is suffering from acute appendicitis. In the absence of surgical facilities, intravenous antibiotics are used to delay or avoid the onset of sepsis; it is now recognized that many cases will resolve when treated perioperatively. In some cases the appendicitis resolves completely; more often, an inflammatory mass forms around the appendix, causing transruptural flotation. This is a relative contraindication to surgery.

My son went through this last Friday around 4:30 pm May 25,2012. That morning he told me he didn't get any sleep at all. I asked why and he said his tummy was aching, at the lower right. I got worried. So I asked him to take a bath and I went to do my laundry while checking on him if his condition would be better once in a while. My son seldom complain about aches and pain so yes it was a big deal for me. I remembered I uttered a little prayer saying Please God whatever he was feeling give him the strength to overcome the pain.

It was 11 am when I decided to bring him to the clinic and have him checked . There,the doctor said I should bring him to the hospital . So I did.

It was a very long trip. He was pale and I kept praying. I was scared to death. I wished that his suffering would go away or be transferred to me instead. Was I over reacting? But he is the most precious to me. My only child and he just turned 15. He gave me nothing but happiness everyday in his own way. He is the sweetest thing on earth. All life's disappointment disappears when he hug and light up to me. No matter how mad I was at his faults it was nothing compared to the joy being with him. I love him beyond his imperfection,beyond weaknesses he showed. So am I over reacting?

Arrived at the hospital I went looking for my uncle who is a surgeon there. I was very thankful that a family were close by ... And I felt secured for I know They will lend me a hand. I told him what the problem was and After hearing my explanation he said he will have to double check and do some test... Urine and Blood . That confirmed everything.

I was interviewed by the nurse and we were advised that they will have to schedule his operation that same day. He was admitted and I felt that K got scared at the thought. But I reassured him that he will be fine.

I was not prepared when I went there .. I didn't bring any personal stuff that we'll be using while we were staying at the hospital . Good thing my cousin Anne let me borrow her fan and pillows and blanket. Personal stuff were brought by R shortly.

The operation went fine. He was convulsing, chilling and hallucinating when he went out of the Operating Room. He spoke and asked if it (operation) is done. I said yes and assured him that he will be fine. He was naked and two interns began clothing him.

They brought him to the Surgery Ward still unconscious and there he was chilling and showing different emotions. He cried and got mad, i thought something was wrong with him so I asked if that was normal. The nurse said yes. Oh, That was a relief!

I watched him for 3 nights and two days with less sleep on my part. K wasn't permitted to eat or drink anything for 24 hours. He begged for it. That was one of the hardest experience for a Mom like me. Seeing your son hungry and thirsty. One instance that I had to overcome for his own good. He got dextrose anyway.

I took some photos as well as videos to document this particular event. Some people find this weird but as a blogger and a Mom my experience could be useful to somebody else. We all learn something from unfortunate events. We learn from experience. I know that my son learned his lesson the hard way.

Then were allowed to go home Sunday afternoon. Right now K's condition is getting better. He was recovering so fast. Especially now that he's back home. Thank God for seeing us through this ordeal. I thank Him for not taking my son away. I am grateful to all my "earth Angels"... Yes for me they are. For the prayers, love and financial assistance be it in the hospital, at cyberspace, or at home... My family and friends.... I got my strength from you. Most especially to my son.

June 1, 2011

First Day of June... Dreamy!

I got up quickly today, as if there were really important things to do. I smell "BACK TO SCHOOL" getting nearer. I'm actually trying to train myself to get back in waking up early since school days will be here soon. Also, when breakfast was over I rummage through my sons stuff last year. Found a lot of things he can still use this year i.e: bond paper, art paper, pens, pencil, water color, folders, brown envelope etc.....

 All I have to do is tidy them up so I can  save some money, for I don't have to buy those stuff he has. I had to junk his test and quizzes, esp the ones that didn't receive a satisfactory grade... and kept the ones he scored perfectly. As I was looking at low scored quizzes and test again, I kinda felt I have to supervise him  closely this time. Admittedly I think he can do better . And the reason I kept those test he scored high is because I will show it to him, so he will be inspired, and in his mind the thought of perseverance, diligence, hard work and aiming for the best will be inculcated. I want him to be able to have the chance to become the best he can be someday. I stopped dreaming for myself I guess, but now I dream for him. And I hope he dreams big for himself...much bigger than what I have ever dreamed of, that he could achieve. Someday I wanted to see him working in an office environment, or flying a commercial plane. Having his own family, living in his own house, with his own car and the wife doesn't need to work so she can closely monitor their kids... and can also take care of my son. And my son would be able to take care of his wife and give her anything her hearts desires. A family that truly cares for each other. A family of his own.


Talking about family... I'm sure a lot of couples had made plans of being a June bride/ groom this year. I just hope there wont be any storms. For If It was me I wouldn't dare to choose this month... I wanted to be a January bride. My dream wedding would be in a beach. My color theme would definitely be Beige and Gold. I would definitely want things to be elegant and simple at the same time. The dress I would love to wear is something close to this: WEDDING DRESS :P but made locally. It would be an intimate wedding. Where only close family and friends would be invited. My ideal honeymoon venue would be in Paris. Not necessarily tho... only if my groom and I have the resources. The important thing here is to be flexible.

I was wondering when that BIG event would be... or will it ever occur... Im not saying I wanted it to happen or even longing for it to happen... but if it does... you'll know. :P Some dream huh!

Now what are my plans for June month?
I would love to write it down, but my time won't permit.   So until next blog.

For now let's try and live life to the fullest, regardless of what month, season or situation.